Dilemma and/or Dynamic
---To ENJOY LIVING: We MUST Be HEARD + TAKEN SERIOUSLY.
---The bad times begin or continue, because we will spend ALL of ourtime trying to be heard and/or taken seriously. The ‘’enjoying living’’ part has yet to kick-in. Ultimately, it is YOU that has to be satisfied + convinced that you are heard and taken seriously. But, here is why other folks are so important in the scenario - OUR INTERACTION WITH OTHER PEOPLE TEACHES US THAT IT IS OKAY TO BE OURSELVES. It really doesn’t work any other way.
---This really is self-acceptance. Once this dynamic is in place the amount of worry and grief that one has goes down immensely. Learning how to listen is a great + necessary skill.