RESIDENTOLOGY 101

‘’Residentology 101’’

 

The RESIDENT

Dilemma and/or Dynamic

 

---I’m talking about being a resident…ANYWHERE. One doesn’t have to be living in a nursing home. It could be a resident in a house, a street, a city, county, state, country or planet Earth…itself. We ALL have the same thing in common. It is the dilemma we as a people, we as a person - HAVE IN COMMON. It is this dynamic:

---To ENJOY LIVING: We MUST Be HEARD + TAKEN SERIOUSLY.

---If this happens properly, then the being in question can then ‘’move on’’ to his next step. If this doesn’t happen the way it should - ‘’That’s When The HEARTACHES Begin.’’

---The bad times begin or continue, because we will spend ALL of ourtime trying to be heard and/or taken seriously. The ‘’enjoying living’’ part has yet to kick-in. Ultimately, it is YOU that has to be satisfied + convinced that you are heard and taken seriously. But, here is why other folks are so important in the scenario - OUR INTERACTION WITH OTHER PEOPLE TEACHES US THAT IT IS OKAY TO BE OURSELVES. It really doesn’t work any other way.

---This really is self-acceptance. Once this dynamic is in place the amount of worry and grief that one has goes down immensely. Learning how to listen is a great + necessary skill.